“That trip to Wal-Mart with my kids was awesome!” – Said no
one ever…
I used to believe that. I’m a glutton for punishment as I
almost always go to the store with my kids. Once we enter the doors, my kid’s dreams
of the glorious toy aisle, or the “I want this. I want that.” begins; usually
ending with a few bruises, multiple trips to the filthiest bathrooms on the
planet, and tears.
Sometimes the kids cry too…
That quote was invalidated on my trip to Wal-Mart today.
Sure there was the begging for a stroll down the toy aisle, trip to the
bathroom where I’m pretty sure some bad Indian food had its revenge on the
previous occupant, and a shopping cart full of crap that I would not purchase
otherwise but I did so to buy myself 10 second intervals of intermittent peace
from my boys.
But there was something different about this trip. God
showed up!
As I arrived in the morning, all of the shopping carts were
wet; it had rained the night before. Needless to say all of the “kids carts”
were soaked too. I grabbed one because it’s the only way I can keep my boys
within arms-reach of me, and made my way to the front door. While walking to the entrance a man ran past
me, then greeted me as I crossed through the veil of the automatic doors of
Super Wal-Mart. He wiped down the entire
cart so my boys wouldn’t have to sit on the wet seats. Upon finishing, I
thanked him and noticed tattered his hat, which said “Jesus Saves."
I made a quick comment “I like your hat” and he said
“Thanks. (Paused) You know…” and then began to share the Gospel with me. Not in some preachy, flakey manner either. Sure he was a bit timid and nervous, but
being real. He told me how his life changed once he accepted Jesus Christ as
his Savior and how Jesus can do the same for me, bringing me a love like I’ve
never experienced before.
I was blown away. While my instincts wanted to cut him off
and tell him that we are already brothers in Christ, I was so drawn to hearing
him share the Gospel with me.
So I let just him keep talking.
When he finished, I told him how blessed I was by his
willingness to share the Gospel. I gave him a big high five and blessed him
with a little something called a LoveBomb.
I’ve never been greeted at a Wal-Mart like that!
As I proceeded to shop I thought to myself “wow I must look
crap for him to think I'm such a sinner that he had to share the Gospel with me.”
I was then quickly rebuked by Holy Spirit because I was putting my prideful
image before my own reality.
I am sinner, no doubt! Put a tuxedo on me, business suit, or
choir robe; doesn’t matter… I’m still a
sinner. So yes, I certainly look like one at Wal-Mart too!
Once I got past my own prideful self, I thought about how
awesome it is that there are others who are willing to step out of their
comfort zone and share the Gospel. I’ve shared with others but almost never am
I on the other side of receiving the Gospel outside of the four walls of a
church building.
As I was leaving, I ran into my new friend again. We chatted
for a minute where he told me his name, Glen, and about the church he attends
close by. He gave me a small tract he had in his pocket from his church and
said it was so exciting for him to run into another brother in Christ while at
work. He said “that almost never happens.”
I knew in that moment that God had put me there to also be
an encourager to him. To help him build his confidence and prepare him for the
next person God has specifically lined up for him to cross paths with. I gave
him a word of encouragement and even snapped a pic with him. What an encounter!
So now I am left thinking: what’s my excuse?
How about all
of the very random people I encounter every day?
Why am I not sharing the Gospel with them?
Why are other Christians not sharing the Gospel
with others
like my friend Glen did with me?
For me, it’s almost always a matter of inconvenience. It’s
not that I don’t want to share the Gospel with someone, or that I’m afraid to.
It’s that I’m too busy to.
And I’m the first to admit that’s a lame excuse!
If you read the Book of Acts, not once did Paul pass by someone
and not share the Gospel because they were in a hurry to needed to get to Philippi,
Thessalonica, Berea, Corinth, or wherever.
Nope. He knew the importance of what he was doing.
One such encounter occurred in Philippi with a woman named
Lydia. They (Paul, Silas, and Timothy)
were headed to Thessalonica but along their journey:
“One
of those listening was a woman from the city of Thyatira named Lydia, a dealer
in purple cloth. She was a worshiper of God. The Lord opened her heart to
respond to Paul’s message. When she and the members of her household were
baptized, she invited us to her home. “If you consider me a believer in the
Lord,” she said, “come and stay at my house.” And she persuaded us.” Acts 16:14-15
It wasn’t always about the destination. The journey was just
as important. Shortly after their encounter with Lydia, Paul and Silas were
arrested (read about it in Acts 16:16-40).
After they were freed from prison following the miraculous earthquake,
they sought refuge at none other than Lydia’s home.
When our lives become too busy to
share the Gospel, it’s not the Gospel that should suffer, we need to unburden
our lives. The thought of standing
before God one day and saying “I was too busy” is simply not something I want
to ever do.
Thank God for His Grace…
Even still, my friend Glen didn’t
need much time. He created a relationship with me by doing a selfless,
unrequired act of kindness. That simple act grabbed my attention. From there,
all he had to do was talk. I was listening.
Wow, that’s really simple.
Yes, and simple is good.
So next time opportunity presents
itself to share the Gospel, I’m not going to make excuses that I’m too
busy. Regardless of whether it takes me
30 seconds, 30 minutes, or 3 hours, if it can change someone’s life to bring
them a love like they’ve never experienced before, it’s worth it!
How about you? Are you too busy?
What is keeping you from sharing
the Gospel?
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ReplyDeleteCool story! Great application. I never thought about the detour to Lydia's house in this way. That Paul and Silas were headed out of town, but Lydia persuaded them to stay. I want to be like Paul and Silas, like this guy Glenn.
ReplyDeleteAdditional thought, I think that this applies in all areas of our life, especially our kids. As you so accurately describe here, when we consider other (less important) things as more important than our job as an evangelist, being an evangelist seems like a waste of time. In the same fashion, when we consider other (less important) things as more important than spending time with our kids, then our kids seem like a hassle, too.
I try to correct this in my life by telling myself, "My kids aren't in the way of the goal I am going to accomplish today, my kids ARE my goal for today." The former mode of thinking makes my kids seem like a hassle; the latter leads to excitement at their shenanigans.
I suppose it's the same thing you are saying here. Instead of thinking, "This Glenn guy (or any other guy) is getting in the way of what I'm supposed to accomplish today," I need to think, "This guy IS what I'm supposed to accomplish today."